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West Mids, West Midlands
Hello everyone! James here, a 20M submissive (and I really, really suck at writing these). I have been interested in BDSM since I accidentally came across it when I was younger, and have never had the chance to try it for real. I would love to have the chance to be put into tight bondage and be used by a mistress but I don't really have much money to put aside for it at the moment :( I am pretty damn shy (but I still go out very often with mates) which is why I haven't attended any events yet as I would be going on my own, and I feel a one to one encounter would be more comfortable for me. I am trying to push myself to get out there more, so please don't think I will waste your time. Yes I'll be nervous as hell but I want to force myself to do this. I drive so I am able to travel around a bit.
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Body Worship
Chastity Control
Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)
Face Sitting
Gags and Hoods
Latex, Rubber and PVC
Nipple Tease
Puppy / Pony Training
Sensory Deprivation
Sensual Tie and Tease
Slave Training
Whipping / Flogging
Double Domme
Boot, Shoe and Foot Worship
Corporal Punishment (Mild)
Anal / Strap-on Play


My main interest is BONDAGE! I absolutely adore it! The tighter the better, gotta make sure its inescapable, padlocks on everything is a massive plus :) So basically any activity I do, I would like to be put in bondage for it as I would feel much more comfortable this way as you'd be the one in complete control and the only thing I could do is submit. I am especially fond of mummification, sleepsacks and cages and love the idea of things like a woman forcing her foot into my mouth whilst I am unable to do ANYTHING about it. As for BDSM, I'm into most things and would be curious about trying new things. I enjoy CBT and have tried this on myself multiple times. Prolonged post orgasm torture is also a big favourite of mine, although I have never tried this. I am interested in things like whipping and electrics, but I have never tried these so I have no idea how much I could take. I am curious about anal play / strapons, but quite nervous about it due to the mess and so on, so I'd have to be eased into it.